Damn It!!!!
I think there is a third book!!!
So I started reading this book…
I bought it like a year ago a long with maybe seven other books. Anyways, I’m just getting around to reading a lot my books. I decided to pick this one up finally because I figured it would be an easy read. And it was, I just didn’t expect to be addicted to the damn story lol. I read the back of the book and figured I knew how it would go….O I was so wrong lol.
Turns out the book is about 3 lesbian friends and their new friend, who is straight but is a little unsure of what she wants from her rich, planned out life…talk about a world I have never ever encountered. And things all play out at a fictional all black university. I was addicted after the first 3 pages lol. I read the entire book in one day…only to find out that there is a damn sequel, Consequences. Another damn surprise from this book…O I was heated. I hate reading series just to find out how it all ends.
So I went hunting for the book….couldn’t find it at the closes B&N, so I have ordered it. And I am so anxious to read it lol. The earliest it will get here is probably Thursday but that feels so far away knowing how fast I can read it and be done lol.
Books….I always get sucked into these damn things….
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Happy 90th birthday, Betty White!
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8 Destructive thinking patterns and how to change them
- ‘Life is shit’ Thinking pattern –Everything in life is bad, everybody is not to be trusted and nothing good will ever happen to them e.g. “I won’t get that job, the interviewer didn’t like me, I didn’t particularly like them anyway.”
- ‘Unsubstantiated conclusive’ Thinking pattern– You tend to make a lot of conclusions without any evidence to back up your conclusions. This can be a really destructive pattern as it can limit you in seeing reality for what it is e.g. “He walks a bit funny, he must be gay.” (I actually heard someone saying this about a colleague last week).
- ‘Never to me’ Thinking pattern – This is when you think nothing good will ever happen to you. This can be a deep seated way of thinking and it is a deep down inability to believe you are worthy of anything good happening to you e.g. “I’ll never have money, I’ve never had it before so I’ll never have it in the future, might as well carry on with this shitty job, at least it pays the mortgage.”
- ‘The negative psychic’ Thinking pattern – Presuming you know what people are thinking about you and it’s all bad. e.g. “She thinks I’m an idiot, I’ll try to avoid talking to her.”
- ‘Should, would, could’ Thinking pattern – This type of person knows what they have to do to change their life, they are capable and they know it and they would do it if only……… e.g. “I know I could go to university and I would, but I’m just to busy with other things right now, I’ll apply next year.”
- ‘Emotion based’ Thinking pattern – Your emotions control what you are thinking and therefore your vision of what reality is e.g. “I feel incapable of doing that so I must be incapable”.
- ‘It’s all my fault’ Thinking pattern – You see yourself as being the cause of everything bad that has happened e.g. “It’s my fault he left me for another woman.” You’ll notice this type of person does not take responsibility for the good things that happen.
- ‘They’re all wrong’ Thinking pattern – You see everyone as incapable of doing anything right and your way is the best way to do it e.g. “He can’t do it right, I’ll stay late tonight and fix it when he’s gone.”
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Every one sees what you appear to be, few really know what you are.
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Not even interested in soccer but that was pretty damn cool
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I know this feeling all too well #ACupboardFullOfCoats (Taken with instagram)
As soon as I get done all the books in my room, I’m investing in my true love :) #Psychology (Taken with instagram)
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